Wednesday, March 14, 2012

"Guilt" as charged TODAY....!!!!!!!


The secret says that WE can categourize our feelings into two.....
GOOD and BAD
Good feelings consist of Happiness, Excitement, "LOVE", forgiveness, passion ,Sympathy and so on
Bad feelings consist of Fear, Envy, frustation,  anger, jealousy and so on..
Admist of all these emotions we always forget one very emotional aspect of our build up and that is "GUILT"
Probably because we dont know what it makes us feel...It makes us feel good if we get rid off it and it makes us feel bad when we cant get rid off it.
This G - factor is directly propotional to our conscience.I guess that this is how the term guilty conscience or guilt conscious was coined.
Why has guilt become so important emotion or feeling to discuss...........????????????????????????
Because when it comes to "guilty" everything else fails
Guilt pierces my heart and pricks my conscience...
Guilt tests my confidence whether i can move with the truth..
It  shows me how big a coward I am to hide my truth.
Guilts questions my self-respect..
Guilt gives me strength to face the truth..
It breaks me completely if the reality is too harsh too face...
It forces me to look into the mirror and look more than the 2 dimensional appearance...
U know it is :"guilt " when we can easily lie to others but we cant lie to ourselves...Guilt hurts my ego and makes me realize that I WAS WRONG...It gives me Sleepless nights sometimes...Guilt is when i have convinced other but cant convinced me..And there is a very thin line between guilt and REGRET...one begets the other..


Guilt hurts me most when I have betrayed my best friends, ditched my loving sister, or have lied to my beloved parents...Keeing everything aside this "G" can be overcomed by the three magical words which may sound repetive or fake but works wonder when u say them directly straight from your pure heart.."I AM SORRY" Now, I am sorry doesnot mean I was wrong and the other person was right but it means U value relationship more than your "ego"..
So next time to release the burden of guilt from your shoulders say the three magical words when u really mean it..Forget and forgive should be the way...!!!!!!!!!!!!!


A song for ' U " sweetheart..<3 <3

P.S. I am on my guilt conscience for what I did yesterday with my sweetheart...When she needed me the most I ignored to talk to her and disconnected her call..I AM SO SORRY " DH"

P.P.S Cudnt muster the courage to talk to you so sending u a sms and writing this blog..:)

P.P.P.S . I know like always though "dominating" and "demanding" yet "forgiving"  you  will forgive your "innocent" "down to earth" "humble" yet "cribbing" buddy..:) love u dh ..miss u...*hugs*

1 comment:

chetna said...

Whistles even louder...!!!!
whistle whistle..Thanks for ur endurance over the years.!!
nd u dont worry sweet hrt even when i'll die my soul will keep on humilating u, irritating u...:P :P
love u for what u r..:):):)
cheers to our frndship!!