Hmm..I want to write something nice today..
Something that has an intention to make me feel "good" n too my readers as well..ah!
**sounds so flattering, as though i have a million eyes all glued to computer screens just to catch a glimpse of my next post...lol..;) ;)**
With new dimensions in my life and my perceptions all changing..I am trying to hold on the sensible madness that defined me..But today i want to speak of love ..The "unexpressed" love..I have a very dear friend of mine who is in love with a guy from a long while, say months which is actually long enough by today's standards..but but she has been unable to express it..
Now this "cupid playing" syndrome development on "her" had several repercussions on "me" too..
1. I sooooooooooo wanna fall in love again now, for there is nothing in this world that gives you better kicks n highs that falling into naya naya pyaar..
:D :D
2.You can find me all puffed up for the task of bringing *do pyar karne wale* together..But in bringing them together I realized the cupid is striking me too..lol
3.It got me thinking so much as to why people wasting time to express how they feel..when they could have been wrapped in each other's arms..
I Read somewhere back that all of us have a default minds like closed buds of flowers and we suffer from one of many syndromes like..
--" What would people say?? I cant risk being that.."
--"Fearing what...if I am rejected..or laughed at.???"
--"would it be a death of good friendship...??"
etc etc
Thankfully...some of us bloom, but sadly many of us remained confined in our thinking..yes yes even for life!! Although we see passionate commitments in today's scenario , changing faster than season's fashion trend , there are yet a handful of youngsters who still believe in the old fashioned love..Saying themselves along with the L-WORD for the special someone....
I truely believe that whenever you like someone , you Must let that "someone"
know..All of deserve to know if there is someone who secretly like us a lit more than people arund us..It is such an amazing feeling to be loved! I dont know why people are so horrified or embarassed or cringy at the idea?? Even if you may not be able to love the person back,it would make you feel warm to know that u made an impact of some kinds and whatever u are doing is likeable enough *yiy ,yiy,yiy!*
Further , my dear souls in love, someone who coined the old proverb "Early bird catches the worm" did not do so in state of dizzy drunkenness...he made and still makes a sense..
If u would wait for the right moment in all probability, the right moment would come too late making it a wait forever!..Besides , any emotions if let unexpressed slowly start to rotten some vital domain of feelingsss..You become so used to of hiding sentiments,that even when one fine day you get into a committed relationship ,you often leave gap everywhere which you want to fill but u find urself unable to do so out of the dumb habit of being that way...
What maxima can happen????
He would laugh at the idea..??
Laugh about it along with him..pretend that it could have mattered a lot if he had said "yes" but phew , alas now it does not!..
And that stupid line" we can truely love just one person in our life" definately did so in a state of dizzy drunkeness!! we all live post rejections , even if friendship is lost , there is no way there cant be more or better ones...
Nothing and no one in life is indispensible...
And that line "mein uske bina nahi rahe sakti" is too cheesy even for films now..!!
In today's world we people are mature enough to handle the fact that someone has feelings for them..One doesnot let things go awkward or go in hyper tension just coz he knows another person in that room once expressed her love to him! He moves on by saying that he doesnot feel the same way and hence even after declining the love he retains the friendship..
So express your love..say as u feel..love n be loved...for there is nothing else that matter on this Earth..After all we were not sent on this earth to create
history but to love n let love..:-))
P.S. the post was for ur and my motivation...go n express ur love ...!!!
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