Old friendsss are like wine...d older they are the better they taste..:))s

Had an almost hour long Skype chat with an old buddy yeah wishing her friendship day..Felt really really good..and it was then I realized that old friends are like wine..the older they are the better they taste..:))) (no pun intended.)

Had wanted to write a post on my "Taurus " girl since long ..Today is the D-day i guess..:) we have been friends since the first day of college! Didnt really realized when we turned into d "best friends"..we are poles apart in most of our lives..be it thinking , nature, behavior or studies..I was typical first bencher, teacher's pet, she was one of the mischievous lot ..I would do my assignments at hostel and hers in college lectures..I was always a one man-woman and she has d crushes that change every week..;) I guess it was these eccentricities that drew her closer..For no reason do they say " opposites attract"

The only similarity that we shared  was that we both were rebels..The typical me was also a fighter..we both fights for our rights  and soon become each others "crib buddies"..lol..we cribbed about anything and everything and the other one always "understood" ..we shared our deep secrets, books, clothes and wat not.. :P

and yeah that doesn't mean it was all hunky dory between us, can never forgot those squabbles..she is typically demanding and moody and so egoistic (she is going to fight with me , yet again, after reading this..) she just could not stand me ignoring her and giving any other a more importance than her..If she had her way..she would claw me  off..

Its been 8 years since we first met..:)) and the relation dynamics still remains the same..even though she is going to be married in next six months, she has not mellowed down a bit..we both still love, hate, fight and are jealous of each other..;) ;) lol

She praises me and takes a dig at me at the same time. she just loves to be so mean with me.. but I guess I am one of those privileged people, with whom she can be what she is....******* (babes that offline between us)

The most endearing quality about her, is her incredible zest for life..If life was a bull, she would pull it by its horns and twist it her way..she has been through some major ups and downs in life..But her " down and out" phase doesnot last longer than 2-3 days..The legend is back on her feet again, very much alive, ready to take on the world..

D, i love u for wat u are.. you are beautiful to me and all others, who know you inside out..Forgive me If i have ever let u down..and thankssss for being always there for me...:) 

Happy friendship day!!!

A 25 year old daughter thanking note

What is the earliest memory you have of your childhood?? honestly guys..I always had a peanut size brain, so I cant boast much of memories, but yes mom dad had ample pictures of me..So I know how my love handles started showing on my first birthday or how I Started getting close to being a tomboy  from my second birthday,judging by the shorts I was wearing back then..But amid all pictures and memories one thing remains very clear , i started resembling mom from very early age..Today, 25 years later, she still remains the most gorgeous woman I ever met..:))

There are so many ways she influenced me to what I am today..When I was kid,I remember wearing her sarees and standing in-front of mirror and wondering, when would I have my own..??Also I loved and I mean loved getting her make up..I remember going to the doctor for my polio drops and getting a small black ink mark on my nail, I would boast to all about my black nail-polish..;)

Somewhere in the primary I realized about the joy of marriage, courtesy the movies and doordarshan Sunday chitrahars and I Dreamt of marrying Sherlock Holmes ,at that time I was never too fond of studies or extracurricular activities. I still remember the day I pretended of a"heart pain" because I wanted to skip the examination..Thank God maa pulled me to the school cruelly with my paining heart that I can now boast of what I am today!!

High school was of course a case of raging hormones, where I fell in love, stayed up at night and get the phone bills soaring high, made my parents wonder, would I ever complete my education at all.But amid that insanity she kept me from flunking class and got me to sail through smoothly..When I used to study mum would lie next to me on the bed and keep an eye on me..Guess that's how I scored so high in my exams

And then it all changed maa was no longer someone I had to beware of..someone I needed to be scared of..she comfortably became my best friend..I enjoyed chatting with her , She too forgets her stern looks and straight face as we became the bestfriends...!! 

College was perhaps the greatest time to realize what my parents meant to me, at 16 when you travel for a night alone to get to Delhi, you thank them for the courage they insisted in you..I remember sitting alone at 3 in morning at the delhi railway station, waiting for the sun to rise so I could take auto to the hostel.I Learnt what mummy meant by saying" a young lady should always remember what family she belongs to" as I comfortably managed college, hanging out with friends, partying all night, gong to temple whenever I wanted to take a walk and be alone..

I love your simplicity,I love the way you look so aghast when I get you an expensive gift, i Love the way you smile with pride when I tell you my boss praised me.I love your shocked look when we go out dining at some fancy place and you see the price on the menu, the way you insist you dont need any more suits and fancy footwear, the way u lovingly make food for the whole family and have that content smile..the way you try to understand my work, the way you keep telling papa how well you run our home, i could go on forever maa..<3

Today I realize how many times I might have hurt you, made you cry, took away your sleep at night, got you anxious, disappointed you and got you feel embarrassed..But mum you are the best thing that has happened in my life and no matter how much people say I look like you, my best compliment is when they say.."I am just like you"

Thank you for showing me what "blessings on earth" really mean and for being my mother...

TWENTY THIRTEEN---THE CHAPTER OF MY LIFE

Hello everyone!! I have been away from here so long that now I feel like a complete newbie! I am not going to give any excuse for not writing except for the fact that life has consumed me in totality. So much that I am in a sense of utter disbelief.My apologies for the long silence!!.And as the curtains are being drawn and the year has end, I play my favorite music and flip back the pages of this chapter of  my life!! The past year was packed with so many activities that I cant actually believe it whizzed past so soon..!!

AS it just happened,I still remember how I welcomed the last new year with family, friends , food and drinks..The year started with so many ups and downs in the personal and professional front . I have gone through a medley of the most unexpected things in the initial few months..The pressure of so called "Dissertation" thing brouth us in the state of saturation M AND I Was so must caught in the mayhem of deciding a thesis topic for us.. :-P It  was so tough moment for us..!! M, do u remember our favorite dialogue " yaar mtech main fail hogaye to kitni bezzati hoggi" :P 

and the others use to make fun of us.. For all those moments we shared together which wouldn't have been so mesmerizing without you M..love you for everything :) for all that time we spent together which wouldn't have been so memorable without you M. 

Finally after a long waiting, comes the most awaited moment of my mom's life with my MISSION MTECH accomplished.!! It was like a dream come true..the great day ... 
when amityuniversity gave so many young , dynamic Post graduates to the world ..wat made the heavens cry..Made the day go dark before the nite..No matter wat made us all face in those 2 tears together..It gave me friends that will last forever and memories That I will cherish life long...And a chance to say .."M a post graduate"
Friends, Acquaintances, companions and mates :))
foes n enemies :P
Amity gave me all 

 The story of getting my thesis published in an international journal for the first time pervaded me  with a pride..!! Although..that was priceless!! With all this I pestered my parents to allow me to live my passion to travel and experience some  of the most breathtaking moments of  my life..Thanku S and Y , For the enthralling trip we had to the Jim corbett! <3 <3

The month of May brought a U-turn in my life and my marriage for finalise..Never thought it will happen this way..Still can't believe that I Turned into the marriageable age..I wonder what is it about marriages that make go weak in the knees..!! Wedding preparations were fun, tiresome , irritating at times but most flattering , making you feel specia and on the top-of-the-world..!! Everywhere you go the shopkeeper invariable asks "AApki shaadi h??" And you blush and say "YES" And lo and behold he will go berserk trying to convince you into buying the most expensive piece of dress/jewelry/shoe in his shop with his already-repeated- a- million-times-remark -"Madam shaadi to ek baar hoti hai ..paise k baare main mat sochiye"

**yeah sure you** .. Its my parents hard earned money and you think I am going to blow all that up just because you take me into a make-believe wonderland!! But the irony is you actually end up spending all the money..Apart from those busy shopping schedules , you become day dreamer the rest of your free day dreaming about your new life, new love and other new things..;-)

 Well I enjoyed the phase to the hilt and my wedding too..It was fun being the centre of attention for once!!

And since the "just married" phase is no less melodramatic , I have decided to try and  keep my blog updated with the moods and feelings that will make me feel good a few months down the line..!!

In the mid of all that I got my first job as a teacher..It feels great to be a teacher..The love and the respect you get from your students is worth-mentioning..While I teach I become nostalgic listening to my students conservation..It reminds me of my old-gold days ;))

With the n- number of ups and downs in my life, the year 2013 was the most memorable year of my life..<3..Hoping for a great year ahead for myself as well as my friends..!!

Death...An essence of LIFE....

And you thought I was dead already..????  I have not updated my blog since 3 months..For me it seems forever..I have not done since i have started to write my blogss..But off late, things had not been promising..There was too much of happening on  the professional front, personal and social ..And i was so caught in the mayhem of everything that left me almost breathless
Thank you friends, you have been kind enough to visit my blogs regularly and some of you confessed to have missing me ..:P (or my blogs..;)) Anyhow!! i loved the compliments and affection from u people that I unburden myself  to connect with wide range of people who love me and  even love to hate me..!!

Life is so fickle..As fickle as everything else in this world..You crack open an egg, a life is destroyed .Yeah ..life changes in such simple strokes which ends everyday, every minute of our lives..
M Says I think about Death too much, too often, But wats wrong??? Isn't it is the only thing that is defined and definite in this indefinable fickle life???

I dont even know if I am going to get that elusive job..I dont even know If I am going to be able to achieve everything or anything in my wish list..!! I dont know anything, except THE END
They say Reading a book becomes boring if you know the end. But Life is one such book, where we all know the end, but still the next chapter is mystery.Because even though we know the end, we donot know which of the strokes is going to end our life..

I dont know how I will "go" .I fear the day because I dont know what awaits me..I even dont know how many of you are going to miss me..!! I am just imaging that if I am able to watch you guys!!(like they show the dead peoples in whites in the movies..)) I would be really sad to watch any of you cry..but i know, it would definitely give me some grim satisfaction of being loved and appreciated..

But what I would definitely LOVE is all of you remembering me with smiles on your faces..(and not tears in your eyes) and to know How I touched a little part of your life and made it special(if I did) And i would love you all remembering me every now and then, and not just get away saying your usual RIPs ..I will be a demanding ghost . if I may call myself that!

M will be little mad after reading this post..Might even consider taking me to a shrink for a pyschic help!!. lol..:D But what the hell..!!Life  is too short for having regrets..I dont know what the next moment is gonna cost me..But i just wanted to have this little heart-to heart with all of you before I 'GO"....

P.S. They say Earth is the hell for people on another planet!!

Of gifts, heartbreaks and thesis!!

Huh..a state of saturation..a state of disappointment ...A state unexpressed!!

oh God!! why did i joined Mtech..!!!

kaash MBA hi kar lia hota..:P :P

This is wat I and Mariam feeling since last couple of week..

Agitated over this "Dissertation" thing..!! I wanted to give rest to my mind!! God someone please light my mind with a candle ..(meri dimaag ki batti jala do koi tohhhh!!..))

And so what if I was gifted a "pepper spray" by my beloved Dad on this women's day??? My two besties made up for it one gifting me an absolutely gorgeous dress from Mango and other one gifting me an elegant slippers from Puma..And thats the reason God made friends!! They never fail to take u out of dumps..don't they?? Thank you both of you for the awesome gifts..And yeah i'll keep my promise..When you are here..I am going to wear both , get clicked crazy and will land the photos on my blog..!! pinky promise..;) :p ;)

On a totally unrelated note, a very close friend went through a breakup.Until now , I thought breakups were ugly and a trip to hell..Only this time I realized it is even worse than that..How it is hard for someone to let  go of another..!!..(hmm...wait let me play my favourite song on the background..:))) that some one whom you loved with all your heart, pinned all your hopes. you never even noticed or thought that things will start going downhill..It must be worse thinking about in your head again n again and not getting any answers...Why dint he/she understand enough??

And there is A whole "news" about ur breakup  that spreads like wildfire and you actually have to give explanations to everyone that heart breaking stuff, every single time and then the old memories to deal with..the gifts, the roses ,your favourite songs, your favorite restaurant, hangouts and so on!

And the big question of all times!! --to be friends with ur ex or not??and that depends on how the break up went..

To get out of a breakup is an immense task.Almost a miracle.It changes a person..To move on- is not at all easy..There is whole lot of data backup in your memory processor.you would wish to crash it without any recovery..Since that doesnot happen .you hide pain, put on a fake smile and move forward..Until one day a friend makes you realize that it all happened for a reason!..the heart break, the pain , the anger and remorse-those were God's ways of turning you in right direction to a right person!!

This post is dedicated to "him" who is going to all this and many more..still rocking where it matters! sTill twisting life by its horns!! still retaining that zeal and passion for love..

The post is also dedicated to all those who have gone through this ugly feeling and triumphed over it!!

To all those who never had to go through breakup and are thankful for it..!!

ufffffffff....!! phirse yaad aagya ki thesis likhni hai...:P :P

byee!!..take care

cheers!!! to life..:)

MY UNDERSTANDING OF MEN AND WOMEN....

• A woman will not expect a man to impress her , but she expects him to try!
• Woman fantasize more than man!
• A woman doesnot relate to why his palm sized techy gadget  should cost a worth but expects him to understand that one single pea sized diamond is worth it.
• A woman wants you to tell the truth when she says" tell me honestly" and later wishes she would not have asked you in the first place.
• She may spend her better years professing how she wants  X-Y-Z qualities in her man and also proudly declare in the same breath how she always fall for an opposite
• She knows there is no "happily ever after" but pines for Prince Charming to come along
• A woman expects her man to share all her work tensions with her but doesnot expect her to remember when questioned later.
• Most women are more in love with the idea of being in love than a person.
• A woman may speak for hours and then end by saying "I some how find it difficult to express what i really feel".
• You would hear this more often from a women's mouth " something is missing in my life/ I dont feel good inside today but don't ask me why", when she knows what and why
• Women would like you to open doors of restaurants for her and pull the chair for her before they rest their *cute butts* :P on it, but would throw a tantrum of equality when u say "It's not a women job..:)
• When they say "I am in bad mood and want to be left alone" they actually want ur company the most..
• Most women can handle alcohol, men and women better than men
• The speed with which women's says "Nothing" when asked "what's wrong" is inversely propotional to shitstorm that is coming..
• She dresses less for herself and more for others..
• Women use their smiles to get away with ANYthing..
• When she is in her teens the older men are always more appealing , and when she gets little  old , the youngsters are so bloody hot..:P
• Women are of three kinds..: high maintenance, low maintenance,  and those who think they are low maintenance but actually high maintenance..*** thanku Billy Crystal for ths superb quote***
• Women may age in their bodies but never n their minds..

Now the man's point of view

• A man knows his wife will never agree for threesome but he believes yes "miracles do happen"
• A man always like options..
• A man has better traffic sense but poorer sixth sense..
• A man may want to bed a woman but not wed her and the one he weds is not always the one he beds..
• Men are better flirts than women..
• Watching telivision is the greatest stress buster  and porn is the God's gift to mankind..:P
• Men use alcohol as a reason and justification for making passes.They always test the water before wadding in..
• Contrary to the popular myth..Most men talks more than most women and listen lesser..
• For the man, relationship is on rocks , only when that three letter word decreases..
• A man loves compliment just as women does..
• Men get better with age..** now dont ask me in what sense**
• A man would crave for a woman till she is a chase and when she ceases to be one, he goes in a haze..Hard to get are always harder to forget..
• A man would really not talk to his woman on phone while n the work space, but when she stops calling on him there, he would wonder what is wrong
• He would mock at gatherings About how women love to gossip, but after the party, he would corner his woman like an interrogation about who rules the gossip-vines and how..
• A man would not mind ogling at other women but gets all " saala, kutta kamina" when someone eyes his women..
• For men, some sex is good, more is better and too much is just all right..

That is about it from two + decades of dealing with both the sexes, in different measures of course! happy gender dealing..:))

Being a WOMAN

I have done   Being a man   post long ago
And had thought about doing this post soon after..But somehow it didn't happen..Majorily for the reason that          
women are too versatile to be taken up completely under a single post..And so I never got arund to it..But off late there have been so many things happening arund.., things that I have gone through myself..things that my friends are going through and it doesnot make any sense..Or i it only me..??And opposed t the funny man, this Woman is pretty serious..

There are couple of my female friends including me who have apparently turned into "marriageable age" according to the parents..The girls including me believe otherwise..They are pretty happy with their single status and no-responsibility-for-a-while-life..Quite visibly the parents and daughters are of different opinion here..But what completely evades my sane mind is why the parents choice to convince their daughter of their own opinion in almost abhorring way..And no I am not talking of some remote village , but about parents who always instilled confidence in their daughters that they were no less than a boy, had every right to good education, were bought up to be smart, confidence.And suddenly these parents wonder about the fate of their girls if they were not married at ripe age..What would Society say??? "kya kahenge log"?? They purposefully make her believe that she is indeed a burden on their shoulders until she goes off to her maritial home bcoz 21+ is a valid age ..in our country to get married..:( and who Am I???? to question like this..??
Do the girls have no choice of their own at all..??She can do everything like a boy and still be a responsibility..??I some times wonder how a stranger is ever going to treat your daughter as an equal when you so visibly donot..???

I have another couple of my friends that have that someone special in their lives but are finding it difficult to convince their parents of their own..Now again I wont start with a debate on ARRANGE VERSUS LOVE MARRIAGE As things work different for different people..But what I clearly find distasteful is the way the parents want to stick to conventional way of Arrange marriages wherein they are made to act like ladkiwaala whose sole job is to appease ladkewala's demands..The girls of ur generatin has been brought up with a mindset of boy-girl equality and no dowry policy..After all appeasing the groom's family is the norm?? is nt??
Are you really desperate to get your girl off your back  that you are ready to pay any amount of money ang goodies to stranger to make way for her into their homes and lives..?

I feel sorry for girls who have been relegated to such behaviours..but i feel worst when I see parents doing it to their "love you till death" "ghar ki izzat" daughters..I know we have come far from those days when girls were not allowed to study nor do anything of their on-free will..But it is really worrying to see parents who let their daughters go so far and suddenly  want to go all traditional when it comes to marriage  and even expect the daughters to do a complete U-turn from their beliefs and conform to whims and fancies of a stranger and his family..

It would be understatement if I would say A women's life is tough!! It was perhaps my naivety that I thought that girls were mented out an equal treatment in today's world..Have you ever imagined  what a girl would feel like when she is made to believe that she is only the responsibility to her parents..??? Yes I have felt that feeling..:'( :'( And when she does get married , she is always the outsider in a husband's family..Is there nobody she can actually call her own..?????????? Somebody who would love her for her person and not just doll her up so that it would be easy to get rid of her , the burden that she is..?? For no reason they say "charity begins at home"

More than anger, I feel frustated, extremely saddened And lonely today!!
And perhaps that the reason why some people feel sad at birth of a daughter..Because they understand apart  from fighting the demons of eve teasing , she will also have to face the trauma of being a burden on either her family or her husband..and she still feels she belongs to none in this world..


QUOTING a few lines from one of my favourite book "gone with wind"gifted by M that sum up what I feel about woman's life and apparently my own life..
"Her life was not easy, nor was she happy, but she didnot expect  life to be easy  and if it was not happy , that was a woman's lot..It was a man's world  and she accepted it as much..The man owned the property and she managed it..The man took credit for the management and the woman praised his cleverness..The man roared like a bull when splinter was in his finger , and the woman muffled the moans of childbirth, lest she disturb him..Men were rude and outspoken, women were always kind, gracious and forgiving

BAD FRIENDSHIPPPSSSSSS

HOW many lessons would you learn Chetu, before learning that "last lesson" from life..??? asked DH consoling me over my latest issue..She further added to my point that.."A gem is only a gem if people handle it carefully..once a gem gives others a chance to handle itself like a stone.., it looses the value..atleast grow up now...enough of the lessons learnt, take the teachings Chetu and move on!!!!

I wanted to explain DH now where was I wrong.????? If my friends ditch me then where is my fault.??.its their bad luck not mines..,...yes becoz gems are always gems and everybody cannot aford it..:-)) I further wanted to add an inspiring line said by BABA" agar hum sab kuch pehle se jaante to jeene ki kala kaise seekhte...????
but furious Dh didnt gave me a single chance to explain myself..her blood boils when I tell my same ditching stories again and again!! yet she has no other option to shake me over the phone and say" WAKE UP"  chetu and I again goes into that same tunnel of darkness and fooled by some one else yet again!!!

Relationships are great boosters and bummers..They help you bloom and can cause you to wither..whom we choose to walk by our side depend on our  quantum of peace and content..It is said we can't choose our relation..we are born with them..But then we can choose our friends-people who stick with us through thick and thin or we hope so!
I beg to differ..we don't choose nothing!!
It is all bloody-crap!
It is "they" who choose us !victims never walk up to the hunters to be slaughtered...we are caught at our unawares!

It is not that we conspire our friendships for give-and-take..it is not the quantity or frequency of communicaton either that we look out for..it is the quantity of assosiation being meaningful on both sides ..we crave and pine for friends like on the series friends.. a telivision show..but then it is all a wishful thinking!!
If you are lucky true-friendship glows on you and if not, which is genearlly the case..you continue to degrade and rote under the false shade of solace..and by the the time you realize it, the damage is already done!!

BAD FRIENDSHIPS are just that- bad!!
for your body, mind and soul..
jUst like BAD-LOVE that jeopardise your chances of falling upon the right guy to fall in love with...similarly BAD-FRIENDS block your chances of experimenting with truth..they leave u in doubts when u suspect intensions and jump to insane conclusions..they make your premises shaky..they cramp you with so much of themselves that you feel there is not much in you - and your think 100000's times before making a new friend..or trusting some right one!
 We all go through "bad friendships" whether we are strong enough to  admit or not...and some lucky ones goes through GOOD FRIENDSHIPS (my own post.. now see the contradiction)..

Get rid of them..uproot them..remove all traces and signs of existence..start considering they are "dead " for you..block all doors that may tempt you to return back once you give-in..realize your worth and to what lows there is the possibility of that"friend" talking to you..It is rightly said we invite troubles..-yes we do..we are humans..I may have a "use -me" tag attached to me or bloody engraved on my forehead..I may also have an expression that says "kill-me" because I dont want to face on deception again and again..
AH..dont let that human laws deter you..when you disregrad the basic laws of humanity..

Yup..!! " Bad friendships "are bad they go deep in you..while you are least aware..and just when you begin to realize- it's depth..it goes whoosh..leaving a vaccum then and there!!
Let me not create more black-holes..let me be more cautious of whom I let in despite the continous knocks on my head and doors!!!

P.S. Again thank you Amity University for a variety of experiences and people..You changed my premises for the word "friendship"..:-))

A year that was....

I look back at the year gone by..And unlike all the years gone by, atleast for this one I cant say tha it passed by majorily because of so many happenings enthralling me and people surrounding me..:-))

The year started on a hugely  contemplative note..as I was full of anxeity, fear, joy ,excitement on my best friend's G impending marriage with S..A love story with an " happy endings" . For G it was a dream about to come true..And the dream is still as beautiful..She had lived , enjoyed every moment with S .ever since fate and destiny  joined them together, G has gained a lot of love weight too.!!! lol.. G i know u are going to rip me apart  through skype seeing this ..
P.S.     G  and S have now shifted to U.S for a year and i miss them both badly..My wish for you two in 2013 is may I  be entilted with the  moniker of " massi" this year..:)) * best wishes*    :* :*

The news of Baby boy V on the same month made me high on spirits..D was happy and glad and equally was I..Though it is now an year completed and I havn't still met V. But yes!! his photos drive me crazy and with each passing day I am going desperate to see him...
P.S  V grow up soon, for  your two massis D and C are curious to play with you..:))

 Before it ends The month of January spurred me with the everlasting memories MTC CAMP . A week long camp is worth to be mentioned giving me an experience of  adventurous stuff like rock climbing, zorbing, para glaiding , cold nights, chits chats ..In all it was all fun..
P.S  Thank you Amity University for a memory like camp, there should be more trips like this..Thank u A for the pics you clicked..thank u S for being my comrade.

AND after years lying  Dormant in my head or in my drafts folder my stories and thought found a place in the blog and much to my surprise , struck a chord or two with some real writers too..I was praised, flattered and  
encouraged for my blogs.
P.S   people started loving my blogs though i always wanted that they should love me..:P ;)

The festival of colors brought a new color in my life..And I got a new lease of life for I warded off all the past memories..

In June, the month of holidays ,we travelled A part of Kashmir and two beautiful Hill stations in Himachal Pradesh that was situated 6000ft above the sea level..The journey itself  was  more beautiful than place..For me I was little scary as I am afraid of heights..We had left sweltering Lucknow and reached Khajjiar where we were scampering for sweaters..Heaven!! it was a scenic place and basically to- die for weather!!..Spent the day in sight seeing and in night enjoying the cold weather in blankets with hot ginger-tea and gorged on some good food..:))


Met my most special and old buddy D after a span of 6 months..Enjoyed, roamed around the day, visiting our old joints, hang outs,  momos, gossiping with Aunty  , discussing whatever happened in the mid time when we were away from each other..reminiscing old days..it was pure unadulterated fun

Completed 24 years of age with my Parents and relatives complaining that I have now turned into marriageable age according to them..PHEWWWWWW!! the word "marriage" generates too many emotions in me ...For all those who missed can check it out by clicking on the link  my birthday ..

My family was shuddered at a  sudden demise of my dearly Maamu who was suffering from cancer.
In addition Some real stalwarts like Rajesh khanna, Yash Chopra, Jaspal Bhatty, Neil Armstrong , left this world a lot poorer in 2012..
P.S  may you all rest in peace..!!

My dearly mom and beloved Dad celebrate 25 years of togetherness!!..with Cupid showering blessing on them, sharing each other joys, sorrows, tears and pain during this era of 25 years..:-))
P.S  love you both miles to go!! together   :-))

And yes you got it right,! I a not going to talk about scams, bomb blasts, petrol hikes, and Lokpal  that never saw the light of the day..

The last two months taught me so many lessons, the lessons of life including..
If your people dont talk to you , it is their bad luck, bcoz gems are gems and every body  cant afford them,by A old btech friend S qouted consoling me ,
"Never trust anyone easily" inspired by Senior K.
Donot give anyone a chance to watch your sufferings says R mam

And before it ends I smiled , I laughed, I cried.  I fought ,I gained, I lossed, I missed,I promised, I kissed, I hugged I enjoyed, I lived every moment of the year 2012..even though i Half heartedly waited for the doomsday  too..:P ..lol..may be posponed..

made many new friends , hope the friendship continues for ever..
And yesss! yess!! before the year ends I and K, was blessed with a new mobile " Samsung Galaxy"
I hope you all had a great year too..and better things are stored for all of us in 2013..I wish we all reach to the pinnacles of success in life, personally, professionally and spiritually..May all those who work hard and strive for a better life , get it!!

My wishlist for 2013
Atleast One of us succumb to the wants of our parents..hahahaha..i mean get married from our gang of FIVE( 5,8,14,16,25) :))
May I and my MTECH friends striving for a bright career get a good job...:))
May I get settled as soon as possible
May we always have a  reason to smile and laugh
Waiting for my cousin's S, M marriage
May I trust myself more rather than trusting people..
May Dad gift me a Apple -IPAD before Holi
May we have more family, friends trips and fun!!

MAY 2013 BE HAPPY AND PROSPEROUS FOR EVERYONE

For you dear Pimples..^-^ So that you feel flattered and get Lost...~~~~

Sorry everyone for another long break!! As usual my brain has been lazing around and this time lazing around the Last exams of my life as a student..:P :P yay!! i am happy no more exams to give..:-))

And Then it was a week holiday family trip to Mumbai which refrained me from my place....:P yay yay!! I am super happy now..:-)) Such days are hard to come by..And visiting Mumbai for second time made me realized Mumbai is such  a beautiful place to live in..:))

Now this post come in dedication to pimples..
Yes..yes! you read it right-- those fat , ugly outpourings though skin which seem like over enthusiast characters bursting out from confinement to seek what is happening outside..;) for how dare we do not include them in all action! Those very thingies who are never welcome anywhere yet are touched every time to ascertain if they are still there!!
Those very bloody pimples!!!
And now you'll ask why am I bothering to dedicate my blog space to them???

Because they have bothered my skin space and encroached upn my once-upon - a- time beautiful , flawless skin! I am angry, vindictive, helpless at this outpour of my own..

Pimple and I had long back association...so let me trace my history..

CUT TO SCHOOL
One or two pimples every one or two months and mom getting frantic with all her house made recipes to experiment on my face..So I'd be smelling of neem or cinammon or sandalwood.. ** 
CUT TO INTIAL YEARS OF COLLEGE
tell my ears of big club party whether it be a fresher party or weekend party where teenagers accumulate in large no. and my subconscious mind would get down to havoc..!
Just one day before..would pop out one in the most strategic of places..you don't believe me ..let you have a pimple at very end at your nose where the two nostrils conspire to meet and then i'll ask you!!

May be finally the Gods ups decided to let me be!
or may be finally the excessive heat from within my insides :P cooled down the pimples into believing yes I have grown up and so just f**k off

CUT TO NOW
I am accompanied by four or five of them every week..:'( :'( creatinfg marks on my ever- shining skin..:'(  screwing my Love -causes- no - pimple theory!
so I Panicked!
My friends , who have spent last 6 years admiring the glow of my skin! are regurlarly complaining..Some of them even said " kuch karle warna shaadi nahi hogi teri" ..
this was not happening! oh someone pinch me back to reality..!!
And you won't believe I uploaded a status on my twitter account..
Do or die situation just one day before my friend's marriage ...outbreak of three monster pimples..two little peas and one big ugly ball* suggest disaster recovery programme ASAP*
And my well meaning friends and followers came up with 41 comments..I was suggested damn everything from toothpaste to ice packs , clearsil to Saafi, neem water wash to coconut water flush, own spit applying to cucumber drying..
I got down to experimenting but bloody all of them refused to Budge!
in addition to giving permanent marks on my face...:'(

So now when the countdown has already begun...
I dread watching myself in mirror and sped up the antisapetic application daily ..the days pass in silent sighs..And every next day I slip out of bed hoping to see my clear skin..I want everyone should notice the small dimples on my cheeks and not those pimples..over obsessed I hate getting my pics clicked ..that I loved once upon a time

But every next dat they are bloody reproduced And now present FOUR of them adorning my cheeks * one couple might had  twins..:P*
And now when the situation has become worse..worse than ever..My little nephew R is now teasing me to find one inch of skin space on my face to kiss..and I doubt how I am tolerating them..he even entitled me with the tag " Pimple queen".

So dear readers and friends
please pray for me..it is said that mass prayers helps in getting past any tragedy and at present I am in life -threatning situation..:P lol
Warna main kissi ko muh dikhane layak nahi rahongi...:P :P
boo-hoo
yours faithfully
me..:))